📚 Celebrate Bisexual Voices: 10 Essential Nonfiction Reads for Bisexual Awareness Week

Bisexual Awareness Week is our annual invitation to celebrate the bold, brilliant spectrum of bisexuality. It’s for the people who love who they love, in all directions, and refuse to be boxed in. Too often, bisexuality gets ignored, doubted, or erased, but the truth is it’s rich, messy, joyful, and powerful. Whether you identify as bi, pan, qu

eer, or are here to learn and support, nonfiction books about bisexual lives are more than just reading; they’re a way to honour our histories, amplify our voices, and revel in the full pride of being unapologetically ourselves.

Here are 10 standout nonfiction books that illuminate the bisexual experience, each one a window into our world, our struggles, and our triumphs.

1. Bisexuality: The Basics

Your Q&A Guide to Coming Out, Dating, Parenting and Beyond by Lewis Oakley

In Bisexuality: The Basics, Lewis Oakley delivers an essential, accessible guide for anyone navigating bisexual identity. Drawing from his experience as a bi activist and advice columnist, Oakley offers a candid, Q&A-style exploration of topics ranging from coming out to parenting, relationships, and beyond.

This book is a vital resource for individuals questioning their sexuality, allies, and anyone seeking to understand the bisexual experience.

The book begins with foundational questions: How do I come out to my partner, children, or family? How do I navigate relationships and parenting as a bisexual individual? Oakley addresses these concerns with empathy and practical advice, providing readers with the tools to approach their identities and relationships with confidence.

As the narrative progresses, Oakley delves into the complexities of bisexuality, including dealing with bisexual erasure, navigating societal expectations, and confronting internalized biphobia. The Q&A format ensures that readers can easily find answers to their specific concerns, making this book both informative and empowering.

Bisexuality: The Basics is more than just a guide; it's a supportive companion for anyone on their journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Oakley's compassionate approach and wealth of knowledge make this book a must-read for those seeking clarity and connection in the bisexual community.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format, paperback and audiobook.

2. Step Bi Step

The Ultimate Guide for Bisexual, Pansexual, and Queer Young PeopleBy Laura Clarke, Illustrated by Laura Tubb

In Step Bi Step, LGBTQIA+ educator Laura Clarke delivers a vibrant, accessible guide tailored for bisexual, pansexual, and queer youth. This 240-page resource, illustrated by Laura Tubb, offers a compassionate, myth-busting exploration of identity, relationships, and self-empowerment. With contributions from bi+ activists and influencers such as Megan Jayne Crabbe, Sofie Hagen, Pearl Mackie, and Zachary Zane, the book provides a multifaceted perspective on the bi+ experience.

The journey begins with foundational questions: "Am I really bisexual if I haven't kissed someone of the same gender?" and "What does it mean if I like one gender more than others?" Clarke addresses these inquiries with clarity and empathy, guiding readers through the complexities of bisexuality and pansexuality.

As the narrative unfolds, Clarke delves into the challenges faced by bi+ individuals, including biphobia, misconceptions, and the pressures of societal expectations. The book offers practical advice on topics such as coming out, dating, and navigating relationships, empowering readers to embrace their identities with confidence.

Step Bi Step is more than just a guide; it's a celebration of bi+ identities, offering support and validation for young people exploring their sexualities. With its inclusive approach and engaging illustrations, this book is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to understand and affirm their bi+ identity.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

3. Claiming the B in LGBT

Illuminating the Bisexual Narrative

Edited by Kate Harrad, Foreword by H. Sharif Williams,

Contributors: Jacq Applebee, Meg-John Barker PhD, & Others

Claiming the B in LGBT is a groundbreaking anthology exploring bisexual identity, history, and activism. (Maybe a little less Non-Fiction, but has essays and articles too)

The book opens by confronting the misconceptions and invisibility often imposed on bisexual individuals, answering critical questions about identity, authenticity, and belonging. Readers are invited to explore the roots of the bisexual movement and understand the systemic and social barriers bi+ people face in both LGBT spaces and society at large.

Through firsthand accounts, essays, and poetry, the anthology illuminates the central conflicts of bisexual life: battling biphobia, negotiating relationships, and asserting identity in a world structured around monosexual norms. The contributions are varied and compelling, offering both historical context and contemporary insight.

Claiming the B in LGBT is an empowering, informative read for activists, allies, and anyone seeking to understand the rich, diverse, and resilient bisexual community. With its mix of scholarship, personal stories, and creative expression, this book ensures bi+ voices are seen, heard, and celebrated.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

4. Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality

By Dr. Julia Shaw

In Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality, Dr. Julia Shaw, a German-Canadian psychologist and bestselling author, delves into the complexities of bisexuality, offering a comprehensive exploration of its cultural, historical, and scientific dimensions. Drawing from her own experiences as a bisexual individual, Shaw provides an insightful analysis of the bisexual community, challenging prevalent myths and advocating for greater visibility and understanding.

The book begins by examining the historical context of bisexuality, tracing its roots and the societal perceptions that have shaped its narrative. Shaw discusses the evolution of sexual identities, highlighting the often overlooked contributions of bisexual individuals throughout history.

As the narrative progresses, Shaw delves into the scientific aspects of bisexuality, exploring research findings and psychological theories that shed light on bisexual attraction and behaviour. She addresses the challenges faced by bisexual individuals, including societal stigma and the complexities of identity, providing a nuanced perspective on the subject.

Bi is a thought-provoking and enlightening read that offers a multifaceted view of bisexuality, making it an essential resource for those seeking to understand this often misunderstood aspect of human sexuality.

Available on Amazon in paperback, hardcover, and audio CD.

5. Bisexual Men Exist

A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual, and M-Spec Men

By Vaneet Mehta

Bisexual Men Exist is a groundbreaking resource by Vaneet Mehta, offering a candid exploration of the experiences of bisexual, pansexual, and multi-gender attracted (m-spec) men. Through a blend of personal narratives, research, and advocacy, Mehta confronts the erasure and stereotypes faced by m-spec men, providing a voice to a community often overlooked.

The book delves into the challenges m-spec men encounter, including societal rejection, mental health disparities, and the complexities of coming out. Mehta highlights the impact of monosexism and phallocentrism, which create barriers for m-spec men, leading to feelings of isolation and invalidation.

As the narrative unfolds, Mehta addresses the heightened mental and sexual health risks faced by m-spec men, such as increased rates of depression and anxiety. The book also explores the intersectionality of identity, emphasizing how factors like race, gender, and culture compound the challenges m-spec men experience.

Bisexual Men Exist is an essential read for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of bisexual and pansexual identities. Mehta's compassionate approach and thorough research make this book a vital resource for m-spec men, allies, and LGBTQ+ advocates. Its blend of personal stories and scholarly insight offers a comprehensive perspective on the m-spec experience.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

6. Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution

By Shiri Eisner

In Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution, Shiri Eisner offers a radical, intersectional manifesto that reimagines bisexuality as a potent political force. Drawing from feminist, queer, and anarchist traditions, Eisner challenges readers to confront monosexism, biphobia, and the erasure of bisexual identities within both heteronormative and LGBTQ+ spaces. This book is a call to action for anyone seeking to understand and dismantle the systems that marginalize bisexual individuals.

Eisner begins by deconstructing common stereotypes and misconceptions about bisexuality, addressing issues such as the perception of bisexuals as indecisive or promiscuous, and the tendency to invalidate bisexual identities. The book emphasizes the importance of recognizing bisexuality as a legitimate and distinct sexual orientation, rather than a transitional phase or a mere stepping stone between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

As the narrative unfolds, Eisner delves into the complexities of bisexual identity, exploring the intersections of race, gender, and class, and how these factors influence the experiences of bisexual individuals. The book also examines the challenges faced by bisexual people in forming relationships and communities, and the impact of societal norms and expectations on their lives.

Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution is more than just an academic text; it is a passionate and thought-provoking exploration of bisexuality as a revolutionary act. Eisner's compelling analysis and call for a bisexual revolution make this book an essential read for anyone interested in queer theory, social justice, and the politics of sexuality.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

7. It Ain’t Over Til the Bisexual Speaks

An Anthology of Bisexual VoicesEdited

by Vaneet Mehta & Lois Shearing

It Ain’t Over Til the Bisexual Speaks is a groundbreaking anthology that amplifies the diverse voices within the bisexual and multi-gender attracted (m-spec) communities. Edited by Vaneet Mehta and Lois Shearing, this collection challenges stereotypes and offers a platform for bi+ individuals to share their stories, struggles, and triumphs.

The anthology opens with a powerful exploration of the erasure and marginalization faced by bisexual people, both within the LGBTQ+ community and society at large. Contributors delve into personal narratives, historical contexts, and the complexities of bisexual identity, setting the stage for a deeper understanding of the bi+ experience.

As the narrative unfolds, the anthology addresses the multifaceted challenges encountered by bisexual individuals, including biphobia, identity invalidation, and the struggle for visibility. Contributors discuss the intersectionality of bisexuality with race, gender, class, and other identities, highlighting the nuanced realities of living as a bisexual person in today's world.

It Ain’t Over Til the Bisexual Speaks is an essential read for anyone seeking to understand the complexities of bisexual identity. With its rich tapestry of voices and experiences, the anthology provides insight, validation, and a call to action for greater acceptance and recognition of bisexual individuals.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

8. Bisexual Echoes: Tracing Culture, History, and Science

By Amanda Wide May

Bisexual Echoes by Amanda Wide May is a compelling exploration of bisexuality, delving into its rich cultural significance, historical narratives, and scientific perspectives. This book offers a comprehensive examination of bisexuality, challenging stereotypes and shedding light on its complexities.

May begins by tracing the historical roots of bisexuality, examining how it has been perceived and represented across different cultures and eras. The book highlights the evolution of bisexual identities and the societal factors that have influenced their recognition and acceptance.

As the narrative unfolds, May addresses the challenges faced by bisexual individuals, including societal stigma, identity invalidation, and the struggle for visibility within both heterosexual and LGBTQ+ communities. The book delves into the psychological and emotional impacts of these experiences, offering insights into the resilience and strength of the bisexual community.

Bisexual Echoes is an essential read for anyone seeking to understand the multifaceted nature of bisexuality. May's thorough research and engaging writing style make this book a valuable resource for advocates, researchers, and individuals interested in the complexities of human sexuality.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format and paperback.

9. The Bisexual Option: Second Edition

A Foundational Work on Bisexuality

By Fritz Klein, MD

The Bisexual Option by Dr. Fritz Klein is a seminal work that delves into the complexities of bisexuality, offering a comprehensive analysis of its psychological, sociological, and cultural dimensions. First published in 1978 and updated in 1993, this book challenges prevailing myths and provides a nuanced understanding of bisexual identity.

Dr. Klein introduces the concept of bisexuality, addressing the common misconceptions and societal biases that contribute to its marginalization. He presents the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid, a tool that expands upon the Kinsey Scale, offering a more detailed framework to understand sexual orientation as a fluid and multifaceted spectrum.

The book explores the internal and external conflicts faced by bisexual individuals, including identity confusion, societal rejection, and the challenges of navigating relationships within both heterosexual and homosexual communities. Dr. Klein examines the psychological impacts of these experiences and discusses strategies for achieving a healthy and integrated bisexual identity.

The Bisexual Option is an essential read for anyone seeking to understand the intricacies of bisexuality. Dr. Klein's thorough research and empathetic approach provide valuable insights for bisexual individuals, mental health professionals, and anyone interested in the diverse spectrum of human sexuality.

Available on Amazon in Kindle format, paperback, and hardcover.

10. Bi the Way: The Bisexual Guide to Life

    
    

A Comprehensive Exploration of Bisexuality

By Lois Shearing

Bi the Way by Lois Shearing is an essential guide for anyone seeking to understand and embrace bisexuality. Whether you're openly bisexual, still exploring your identity, or simply interested in learning more, this book offers valuable insights into the bisexual experience. Through firsthand accounts from bi advocates, Shearing provides practical tips and guidance on topics such as dating, sex, biphobia, bi-erasure, coming out, activism, and gender identity.

The book is structured around ten chapters, each titled with a question that addresses common concerns and curiosities about bisexuality. Chapters include inquiries like "Am I Bi?" and "What If I Have a Preference?", guiding readers through the complexities of bisexual identity and offering a nuanced understanding of sexual fluidity.

Shearing delves into the challenges faced by bisexual individuals, including societal stigma, identity confusion, and the struggle for visibility within both heterosexual and LGBTQ+ communities. The book also addresses the impact of biphobia and bi-erasure, providing a platform for voices often overlooked. By sharing personal stories and experiences, Bi the Way fosters a sense of community and belonging among readers.

Bi the Way is more than just an informative guide; it's a rallying cry for bisexual visibility and acceptance. Shearing's honest and powerfully written narrative empowers readers to live their most authentic bisexual lives. With its inclusive approach and practical advice, this book is a must-read for anyone looking to understand and embrace bisexuality.

💜💙💗 Why Books Stories Matter💜💙💗

These bisexual books matter because they give visibility, voice, and validation to a community too often misunderstood or erased. From empowering bisexual guides and personal memoirs to historical overviews and activist manifestos, each book explores the spectrum of bisexuality, offering practical advice, inspiring stories, and critical insights.

They’re essential reads for bisexual people, pansexual readers, queer youth, LGBTQ+ allies, and anyone curious about understanding bisexual identities. By exploring these titles, you celebrate diversity, challenge biphobia, and support the bi+ community.

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